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Reading Mistress – My favourite Domination Props

Sunday, October 25th, 2015

These are some props I consider essential props in any Femdom Mistress kit – well at least my favourites anyway!

Paddles: After a good hand spanking a paddle made of good quality leather is a great way to discipline your Sub. A good paddle should last you a long time and deliver a nice a sharp sting to your slaves bottom.

Varying sized Buttplugs & Anal lube: If your Sub is a fan of anal play you will want to start small and warm him up to avoid injury. The bigger the buttplug the more lube you will want to use for ease.

Vibrating Strap-on: Strap-on play is very popular among my Subs, but I find when I use my vibrating Strap-on it sends them to Heaven! Those extra vibrations stimulate the prostrate and can result in an extremely happy ending!

Cock Rings: Can be used for sensual play or to make a punishment more severe. When placed around the testicles and penis the cock ring gathers the balls up tight making them more sensitive. Now image a sharp slap, a flick with your finger nail or a stroke with your flogger, the sensation will be heightened and you Sub will be putty in your hands!

Bondage Gear: The world is your oyster here. My favourite thing too use is good quality ropes tied with a hangman’s knot. Many online stores sell overpriced cuffs and restraints and these are nice to play with sometimes but it’s good to add in some bits from your local hardware store such as chains, clips and padlocks! Just don’t lose the key!

Your Mind: whilst physical play and pain play is fun, if you can get inside your Sub’s mind you will intensify the entire experience. What are his fears? His weak spots? Use your imagination to tease, install fear and leaving him guessing wat is coming next. Sexual arousal starts with the eyes and the brain so turn him on with your words and body language and make him feel vulnerable. Also look shit hot at all times and wear something that accentuates all your best bits and serves to make you look more powerful. High heels, stockings, thigh high boots, PVC/leather, collars, gloves and spikes will all add to the image you are projecting and showcase you as the twisted Femdom Mistress you love to be!

Ciao for now – your Reading Mistress – Princess Kaz! X

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What is Femdom?

Sunday, September 6th, 2015

Femdom is the term used to describe the dominant role the female takes in a bdsm style relationship.

It often refers to the relationship between a dominatrix or mistress and her slave or submissive male. Or in dominant female-submissive partner relationship or sex game.

There are many aspect of femdom ranging from role play and ‘tie and tease’ through to more extreme bdsm activities such as ‘trampling’, ‘corporal punishment’ such as spanking or caning, and humilation.

Submissives may be aroused by the psychological aspects of play and enjoy a dominant partner controlling them, or even simply taking away the responsibility from them. Or perhaps they might have masochistic tendencies and enjoy pain play. Of course the two often overlap. In my personal opinion a good dom will be able to read their subject and administer a mind blowing blend of pain and pleasure. From my experiences most slaves respond well to being kept on their toes and not knowing what is coming next. Femdom doesn’t always have to be about extreme pain and torrents of fury and verbal abuse….sometimes a little threat whispered sweetly, or a gentle flogging… warming up to a good hard spanking will have your slave declaring their undying love….or at least buying you a fabulous pair of new shoes!

If this concept is entirely new to you – discuss levels and boundaries first and always have a safe word. Also it might sound obvious, but never leave a slave tied up or gagged and unsupervised, or with no way to escape should a disaster happen!

I would also insist on finding out about your Slaves state of health before entering into any extreme play, so that you are aware of any medications they need or if there are any ‘No-go’ areas. Not only will this clear up any concerns, but your slave learn to place his trust in you, and you’ll avoid the session going horribly wrong!

I could simply write pages upon pages on this topic, so if this has left you wanting to learn more about this fetish then read through some of my other blogs on the site. If you are eager to try your hand at this but can’t find a play partner, simply drop me an e-mail and enquire about how to book a femdom session, webcam session or phone chat with me.

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