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What is Femdom?

Sunday, September 6th, 2015

Femdom is the term used to describe the dominant role the female takes in a bdsm style relationship.

It often refers to the relationship between a dominatrix or mistress and her slave or submissive male. Or in dominant female-submissive partner relationship or sex game.

There are many aspect of femdom ranging from role play and ‘tie and tease’ through to more extreme bdsm activities such as ‘trampling’, ‘corporal punishment’ such as spanking or caning, and humilation.

Submissives may be aroused by the psychological aspects of play and enjoy a dominant partner controlling them, or even simply taking away the responsibility from them. Or perhaps they might have masochistic tendencies and enjoy pain play. Of course the two often overlap. In my personal opinion a good dom will be able to read their subject and administer a mind blowing blend of pain and pleasure. From my experiences most slaves respond well to being kept on their toes and not knowing what is coming next. Femdom doesn’t always have to be about extreme pain and torrents of fury and verbal abuse….sometimes a little threat whispered sweetly, or a gentle flogging… warming up to a good hard spanking will have your slave declaring their undying love….or at least buying you a fabulous pair of new shoes!

If this concept is entirely new to you – discuss levels and boundaries first and always have a safe word. Also it might sound obvious, but never leave a slave tied up or gagged and unsupervised, or with no way to escape should a disaster happen!

I would also insist on finding out about your Slaves state of health before entering into any extreme play, so that you are aware of any medications they need or if there are any ‘No-go’ areas. Not only will this clear up any concerns, but your slave learn to place his trust in you, and you’ll avoid the session going horribly wrong!

I could simply write pages upon pages on this topic, so if this has left you wanting to learn more about this fetish then read through some of my other blogs on the site. If you are eager to try your hand at this but can’t find a play partner, simply drop me an e-mail and enquire about how to book a femdom session, webcam session or phone chat with me.

You can also view my Femdom Mistress Profile here: http://premierlondonescorts.co.uk/escort/watford-mistress-princess-kaz/