Posts Tagged ‘Domination’

No room for Censorship, Elitism & Prejudice In Today’s World!

Saturday, October 24th, 2015

What would the pro Sex Workers lobby have to say about elitist attitudes & derogatory views towards Sex Workers?

Here is a recent quote to a friend of mine from a supposed ‘Mistress Directory’ on Twitter “We only hire Top Dommes, The Elite…Not Escorts with Whips! No Thanks!” The same ‘directory’, a supposed professional business publically called a friend of mine a ‘Slutty Dumme’ (whatever a dumme is..I don’t think it’s in the Oxford dictionary as far as I know!) and posted a picture of a woman lying in garbage. Quite juvenile behaviour from a group of so called ‘Elitists’ who are claiming to run a reputable business. This is not about who called who what. It’s personal and the comments go beyond name calling and become highly derogatory to certain groups of Sex Workers. Such beliefs and negative attitudes undo all the good work that the Pro Sex Workers lobby has done over the years, and work to repress and limit us.

This is an old fashioned viewpoint which pigeon-holes and divides Sex Workers.How can one claim that one type of Sex Worker Is better or worse? Or have more or less rights depending on what services they do or do not offer? To label and separate Sex Workers and to use negative bias to attempt to build an ‘Elite’ foundation built on prejudice and stereotype should not be acceptable in modern society. Once we allow stereotypes and class snobbery, it opens the doors for prejudice against all types including race/gender/biological gender/ sexual orientation etc.

We are all human beings and all doing our jobs for similar reasons. We all have similar struggles, we bleed the same and wants the same things in life. We should stand strong and support one another regardless of the small details such as services offered/ethnicity/sexual orientation and so on. Some of these labels I mentioned are biological, others are choice. But we should be free to express our choices as consenting adults without judgement. We will not stand for ‘slut shaming’ or any other attempts to condemn the way people express themselves or earn their money as long as it is legal and consensual.

I support those who are free of negative constraints and free of out dated ideologies. This is 2015. Get with the picture because there is no room in society for hate and division. We are one. Let us unite.

Kaz B xxx

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What is Femdom?

Sunday, September 6th, 2015

Femdom is the term used to describe the dominant role the female takes in a bdsm style relationship.

It often refers to the relationship between a dominatrix or mistress and her slave or submissive male. Or in dominant female-submissive partner relationship or sex game.

There are many aspect of femdom ranging from role play and ‘tie and tease’ through to more extreme bdsm activities such as ‘trampling’, ‘corporal punishment’ such as spanking or caning, and humilation.

Submissives may be aroused by the psychological aspects of play and enjoy a dominant partner controlling them, or even simply taking away the responsibility from them. Or perhaps they might have masochistic tendencies and enjoy pain play. Of course the two often overlap. In my personal opinion a good dom will be able to read their subject and administer a mind blowing blend of pain and pleasure. From my experiences most slaves respond well to being kept on their toes and not knowing what is coming next. Femdom doesn’t always have to be about extreme pain and torrents of fury and verbal abuse….sometimes a little threat whispered sweetly, or a gentle flogging… warming up to a good hard spanking will have your slave declaring their undying love….or at least buying you a fabulous pair of new shoes!

If this concept is entirely new to you – discuss levels and boundaries first and always have a safe word. Also it might sound obvious, but never leave a slave tied up or gagged and unsupervised, or with no way to escape should a disaster happen!

I would also insist on finding out about your Slaves state of health before entering into any extreme play, so that you are aware of any medications they need or if there are any ‘No-go’ areas. Not only will this clear up any concerns, but your slave learn to place his trust in you, and you’ll avoid the session going horribly wrong!

I could simply write pages upon pages on this topic, so if this has left you wanting to learn more about this fetish then read through some of my other blogs on the site. If you are eager to try your hand at this but can’t find a play partner, simply drop me an e-mail and enquire about how to book a femdom session, webcam session or phone chat with me.

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